It is hard to believe, but our time on Aride has come to an end, although slightly premature, we have been away for a total of 20 months and I can’t quite believe where it has gone. Everyone said it would fly – and it has!
As we made our last boat launch into some difficult surf and rough sea, it was impossible to think that this was going to be the last and that our time in the tropics had finished. As I looked back to see the pairs of fairy terns and tropic birds flying along the beach, the frigate birds soaring over head, the noddys and sooty terns flying alongside us, I had to wipe away a tear. I caught the eye of our boat driver and ranger, Bryan, and I had to look away, I was saying good bye to what had been an amazing period in my life, although very difficult at times, it was a part of my life that will stay with me for ever, both the highs and the lows.
The journey across the 6 nautical miles to Praslin was full of wildlife treats, from flying fish to shearwaters. Although cloudy, rough and wet, the trip was warm and I thought about how strange it will be to be going back to a colder climate and one where clothes and shoes are a necessity. We were dropped at the beach stop for the airport and our heavy cases, and unconventional luggage in the shape of fishing rods and ukulele seemed very out of place as we balanced them on the fallen tree out of the sand. The flight across to Mahe gave us our last view of Aride, that small 73ha where we had spent the last 20 months of our life, this was the start of the long trip back to the UK and a new way of life.
As I write this we have been back to the UK just a week, with some much needed time to catch up with family and of course cheese and fruit. It is very different life and as I look back the differences are both good and bad. There is a lot to do as you would imagine, from becoming reacquainted with your clothes and stuff to trying to pick up where we left off nearly 2 years ago.
It was lovely to walk back into our house, which was in excellent condition, as we breezed through the kitchen door and set foot on the wooden floors, the colours rang our clean and bright like they had always been and I had forgotten how special a place this was, how much work had gone into it and much love and effort had been needed to make it this way. The sun shone through the arched kitchen window and lit up the yellow walls and made the room sparkle.
Re establishing our selves has been a constant process of rediscovery and one I feel has been a real privilege to do, not many people get chance to take a second look at life through different eyes, to clear how they felt when they left 2 years ago and come back to see it from a different view point, to re discover their old life. There have been many occasions when the reassuring British way of life has felt strikingly good. From the obvious, hot showers when ever you want one, the cleanliness of it all, the clean shower tray, sand free towel, soft carpet under your feet, no sand to brush off your feet before you put socks on or get into bed. To waking up in our south facing yellow bedroom with the sun reflecting on the walls at 5am, not 7am - and the long days, although not warm summer nights yet, the length of day light is fantastic.
There is much, much more, the choice of vegetables and food in the shops, simply the selection of tomatoes; beefy ones, plum ones, cherry ones, on the vine, bog standard ones, organic ones just to name a few, then the same for potatoes; white, red, organic, Somerset white, jackets, new, it is all a bit mind blowing.
I am just starting to get time to catch up with friends and gossip, and enjoy the process of rediscovery, however I suspect that rebuilding life will take a while. Although my time on Aride was the most physically, emotionally and mentally challenging thing I have ever done in my life, I also know for sure that I will really miss the Aride life, and that there will be many times that I will want to swap the safe, well equipped British world with many types of tomato and potato, for a chance to just sit on the Aride beach in a world of my own.
Re establishing our selves has been a constant process of rediscovery and one I feel has been a real privilege to do, not many people get chance to take a second look at life through different eyes, to clear how they felt when they left 2 years ago and come back to see it from a different view point, to re discover their old life. There have been many occasions when the reassuring British way of life has felt strikingly good. From the obvious, hot showers when ever you want one, the cleanliness of it all, the clean shower tray, sand free towel, soft carpet under your feet, no sand to brush off your feet before you put socks on or get into bed. To waking up in our south facing yellow bedroom with the sun reflecting on the walls at 5am, not 7am - and the long days, although not warm summer nights yet, the length of day light is fantastic.
There is much, much more, the choice of vegetables and food in the shops, simply the selection of tomatoes; beefy ones, plum ones, cherry ones, on the vine, bog standard ones, organic ones just to name a few, then the same for potatoes; white, red, organic, Somerset white, jackets, new, it is all a bit mind blowing.
I am just starting to get time to catch up with friends and gossip, and enjoy the process of rediscovery, however I suspect that rebuilding life will take a while. Although my time on Aride was the most physically, emotionally and mentally challenging thing I have ever done in my life, I also know for sure that I will really miss the Aride life, and that there will be many times that I will want to swap the safe, well equipped British world with many types of tomato and potato, for a chance to just sit on the Aride beach in a world of my own.